Vibrator
Instructions For Couples
Also
See:
Vibrator
Instructions For Women
Vibrator
Instructions For Men
Ready
for the real truth? Every woman at some time has lied about having
an orgasm. About 60 % of the female population don't reach an orgasm
with penetration alone. This fact has nothing to do with a partner's
performance - it is an anatomical issue. For every man that
the thought of using a vibrator with his partner makes him feel threatened
or inadequate - it's time to deal with reality. A vibrator can enhance
even the healthiest sexual relationship. Using a vibrator on a woman's
clitoris is the easiest way for most women to reach orgasm every time.
Learning how to use a vibrator correctly on a female partner can make you
a great orgasmic lover - GUARANTEED!
Introduction
- Communication is the most important part
of introducing a vibrator into couple play. If neither partner has
never used a vibrator before then personal experimentation is the place
to start. Begin with using the vibrator just to massage each
other - it doesn't have to even be in the genital area. Just concentrate
on communicating to each other what feels good - use the vibrator just
for arousal. Take time - learn what is most pleasurable for your
partner and for yourself.
Vibrator
Hints - Being stimulated properly is
the key to enjoying a vibrator. It is a combination of the right
speed with the right pressure in the right spot.
1.
Not all vibrators have the same intensity - always start slow and build
up the level of intensity and pressure. If the vibrations are the right
speed but seem too intense try draping a soft cloth between the clitoris
and the vibrator or use lighter pressure.
2.
Remember
that most of a woman's sensitive areas are on the outside.
3.
Lubrication always makes for a more pleasurable vibrator experience.
4.
Vibrators placed in one spot have a tendency to cause numbing so remember
to keep rotating lightly.
Vibrators
Use With Intercourse - If you want
to create an incredible orgasm use a vibrator against a woman's clitoris
during intercourse. In addition to the standard vibrators that are
available, some vibrators such as the clitoral vibrators
are
designed to stimulate the clitoris at the same time allowing vaginal penetration
- all this and hands free too! A vibrator can also be used during
intercourse to create multiple orgasms for a woman. The secret is to back
off of the pressure on her clitoris after the first orgasm, keep the vibrator
moving in the same general area but avoid direct contact with her clit
until the sexual energy builds back up again.
(Find
A Variety of Clitoral Stimulators Here!)
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A Variety of Cylindrical Vibrators Here!)
G-Spot
Vibrators With Intercourse - In order for
a woman to have a
G-spot
orgasm your have to stimulate the G-Spot. Start by locating the G-Spot
with your finger. The size and location of the G-Spot will vary from
woman to woman, but it's usually about the size of a quarter, and lies
two to three inches inside the vagina directly behind the pubic bone -
you will know you are there when you reach an area that feels different
from the vaginal wall. The special curve of a G-Spot vibrator will
help provide continuous stimulation to this area. Rear entry
provides the best access to the G-Spot - so start with the vibrator and
finish with intercourse doggie style.
(Find
A Variety of G-Spot Vibrators Here!)
Vibrators
Use With Oral Sex - Vibrators can also
be used to enhance oral sex by placing the vibrator on the genitals while
oral stimulation is being performed. Another
really great way to use a vibrator during oral sex is having one partner
use the vibrator for masturbation will giving oral stimulation to the to
the other partner.
Vibrators
Use With Mutual Masturbation - Once
you and your partner have reached a level of vibrator intimacy that allows
both of you to feel comfortable, you might enjoy trying mutual masturbation
together. Men especially find watching a woman masturbate extremely
erotic, and an added benefit is that it gives an idea of what their partner
specifically needs to climax. Before you begin, discuss if your partner
would prefer to masturbate in front of you, or just massage your genitals.
Don't make orgasm the focus on the first time. Just enjoy the experience
and concentrate on finding the strokes that work best for both of you.
Vibrators
Use With Anal Intercourse - Anal play for
couples can be very erotic and orgasmic. The safest vibrator to use for
anal play is one that has been designed for that specific area of the body.
The anus is very sensitive. The most important thing is to use plenty of
lubricant as the anus has no natural lubrication. Start by just touching
and stroking the outside of the anus. When you feel you are ready, insert
the vibrator, moving it in and out slowly. Remember to use a condom
on any anal vibrator if it is going to be shared or if you are using the
same vibrator for multiple areas of the body. Never use a vibrator
that has been in the anal region on a woman's genitals or in her vagina
until it has been thoroughly cleaned. Failure to do so is a sure
way of creating a severe female infection. We strongly recommend
using Adult Toy Cleaner. (Read
more about Care and Cleaning Your Vibrators Here!)
There
are several ways to prevent those kinds of problems - using multiple vibrators
that are designated for specific areas of the body or putting several condoms
on the vibrator and removing every time you go from the anus to genitals.
(Find
A Variety of Anal Vibrators Here!)
Summary
Once
you have mastered some of the "Couple Vibrator Basics" you can combine
your adult play with other fun vibrators; underwater play with the
water-proof variety (Find
A Variety of Water-Proof Vibrators Here!),
remote-control
vibrators
(Find
A Variety of Remote Control Vibrators Here!),
trying
different vibrator shapes and materials, experimenting with various lubricants
and tasty body massage oils. The possibilities for great orgasmic
sex are endless!!! And remember the old saying - "The person with
the most toys wins!"
Also
See:
Vibrator
Instructions For Women
Vibrator
Instructions For Men
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